Annie Abraham

Why Now Is The Right Time To Take Control Your Life

“No one has the power over you unless you give it to them, you are in control of your life and your choice decided your own fate.”- Anonymous.

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I always say, as you might have heard, you are to create your own story, and you should not let anything control you.

You might be at a pause in your life right now. Time is at a standstill, the clock hands are not moving, and you feel like you are running in the same place, unable to reach your desired destiny. It looks like the clock of destination has taken a pause.

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Stop reading and ponder on the word ‘Pause’.
Just pause for a moment and think, instead of blaming your circumstances, why you haven’t reached the place you want to be. Aren’t you wondering why the clock has stopped?
Take a pause and a breather. The pause in life helps you look around and reflect and identify what’s controlling your life. Who or what has slipped the pen out of your hand and started rewriting the story you had in mind for yourself.

Are you in control?

To whom or what have you given the authority to change your story? Pause and think for a moment.
Now that you have paused, it’s a good time to ask.
Am I letting my circumstances control my life?
Is my past sticking on to me like a leech and taken ahold of my present and future?
Is money leading me by the collar, rather than me leading it?
Is food controlling me rather than me controlling it?
Is entertainment like Netflix, and other sources seeping into me and controlling me without me even realizing it?
Has social media taken the driver’s seat in your life?

Pauses help you get back on track

Am I listening and accepting the negative labels that others put on me, and letting it control my life?
Pauses aren’t a bad thing, pauses in life help you get back on track, and on to the map that you had created for yourself.
Now that you are in a pause, you can view your story much better. You can change it, modify your it, and make it even better than what you had once imagined.


When You pause, it doesn’t mean it’s time to quit. Instead, it means you should celebrate the pause because it will lead you to a successful and marvelous ending.

It’s time to reclaim your story, and move the block that is controlling your life. Take the reins of destiny. Grab that pen and paper and start journaling, start creating your story and make your own mark in history.

COME ON NOW! Take control of your story!

“No one has the power over you unless you give it to them, you are in control of your life and your choice decided your own fate.”- Anonymous.

This is your mission, and use this pause to take control of your life. Stop counting the stars and start counting your victories.

-Annie Abraham

By Annie Abraham

If you are like many people, who stopped at my website, you know there is more to life. More to your purpose, more to your identity, more to your destiny. I'm a Life Coach and Motivational speaker, helping women Build A Legacy and changing lives. I am a living proof that if you can dream it, God will do it. We at Annie Abraham, help Mothers to find their mission and purpose in life. We give you the tools you need to dream big, become a high impact achiever, and live a life of fulfillment. You don't have to live an average life year after year. Change starts today. This can be your beginning . Lets gets on this journey together to make you the better version of yourself. I will help you find your purpose, identity, goals, dreams and create your destiny with Confidence. Lets Begin today. Lets get started.

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